Took care of mom today

My sister & I. took care of mom's tree . I cleaned her whole house, changed her bedding. ect, I am so sad looking the way she is living now . Bob & I are thinking about moving in there to take care of her. My life will be different, living under her control, yet she is my mom. I don't want her to always be alone & sick.I love my mom, Yet I love BOB . The Lord saids when you take a wife give up your mother (for the man) or others before them.