Brrrrrrrrr! It's so cold.

Happy Leap year Day Everyone. Hope everyone is having a great day today. We had a cold start to the day today, when I got up @6:30 the temp was -4 out there, but now we have bright sunshine as we get ready for another round of snow tonight.

We are having a really great day hubby is finally starting to feel better & I got a call from my best friend that I have known since we were in 3rd grade. She is going to be coming to visit me durning Easter, so I am all excited about that. I can't wait to see her it's been over a year since we've been able to get together. While she is here we plan on a day trip to the casino, she has never been & wants to go so bad, so we'll take a ride there.

When I was in the hospital she came & stayed with me for the first month, she was by my bed side everyday. Then when I got out after the 18 months of chemo she came & helped me get settled. I am so looking forward to seeing her, now I really want Easter to come soon.

Have a nice week-end everyone.

What a beautiful day today was, it was cold but the sun was shinning all day long so that great. With all the snow & the sun it looked like a painting outside. I love days like this as you can see all the wonders of Gods creations, it really makes me feel at peace inside . The days are getting closer to when spring will be here & the ground with come alive with new life as everything begins to grow again.

I look forward to being able to plant my vegetable garden & plant all my flowers around the house. I love spending the day outside working in the garden, this year I'll plant: tomatoes, corn, squash, pumpkins, & I planted garlic this fall so hopefully that will come up to.

For my flower garden I have 3 rose bushes( yellow, pink, & red),in the front I plant all wild flowers, I have a bleeding heart plant on the side of the house, & this year I will plant carnations. I have a little well that I plant flowers in the bucket. They are building a deck off my side door so I'll put flower boxes on the deck & fill them with annuals.

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day today.

We had a good day today at the doctors. Bob needed more tests since his blood is still low but we love the doctor. He is doing good yet his wound isn't healed yet, so he still has to watch it, which he hates.
He has another month home which is driving me crazy . I love him but I have no down time to myself. Even when I am on here he is asking me for something or looking over my shoulder. I know he can do thinks he does them before I get up , but once I'm up it's totally different. He wants to get back to work so bad he's angree all the time & I'm taking it all in.

Let It Snow, Let It Snow !!!!!!!!!!

Well here we go again, another winter storm here. So far it started @ 7:00 this morning & hasn't stopped. I don't mind the snow all that much , it's the cold temps & the wind. So far it has been in the 30's but is suppose to fall into the single digits, then the wind will pick up, but that's winter in good old Rochester, NY.
Made out good at the doctors he had to change the medician for my bones since the other one was making me really sick. Have to go back in another 3 months, so that was good.
Did all the rest of my curtains today so that job is all done. Sent out the invites for Easter dinner, & planned out the whole menu. Now I am working on my meal plan for March, & getting my to do list done.
Hope everyone is having a good Tuesday.

Today was such another beautiful day, so we went for a nice long walk. The sun was shining & it felt so good to be able to walk around. We finally dropped off our taxes to get them done & I got more window clings for Easter. Got all the windows washed so I could put them up, which the sun shines through most of the day so it makes the house nice & warm.
My niece is doing ok, just really sore still & is getting more black & blue. She saids everyone looks at her like she's a freak, but she keeps on going. She said make-up isn't working , so she doesn't even bother with it.

Hope everyone is having a good Monday evening & that your week is good.

What a beautiful day today !

What a beautiful day today was, we were able to get out for a little while. We went to the store so hubby could walk around a little bit. While there hubby surprised me with a new microwave, he said it was for me helping him get through all this he has been dealing with.I thought that was so sweet of him. Then we grapped a little to eat before we headed home.
I heard from my sister also, she said my niece is doing ok but really sore. She has a bruised cheek, nose, forehead, & now both of her eyes are turning black & blue. So by the time she goes to school Monday she'll look like she got into a neck of a fight. She is laughting at her bruises, everytime she looks in the mirror, she tells her mom , hey mom & am going to need 10 bottles of make-up for school. Everytime she gets a new bruise she adds another bottle of foundation, my sister saids it's funny & they both laugh.
I hope everyone had a great Saturday too.

NIECE GOT INTO CAR ACCIDENT TODAY !

My sister called me this morning on her way to Alfred College to let me know my niece was in a car accident on her way to school. A van going the other way crossed the yellow line , hit the SUV in front of her. The SUV spun around & hit my niece head on before it ended up in a tree. There were 5 ambulances there & they had to cut the girl out of the SUV, but they found out she is doing ok.
My niece has a lot of bruises on her face from the airbags & now she is complaining her ribs & upper body hurts, so my sister is taking her to the ER to get her all checked out.
We were so scared when we heard, but the Lord was watching out for her. The other people all have broken bones, the driver of the SUV has broken leg & arm, the woman in the van that caused the accident has a broken arm.
Thank God everyone is alive.

Huddy still fighting a bad cold

Hubby is still fighting a bad cold here. It is getting really deep into his chest, we called the doctor but, they can't fit him in until next week. It kind of makes me nervous since he's just getting over that infection in his infession. I know he really feels bad & he is up coughing all night long so he's not getting that much sleep. My mom thinks I should take him to the ER, but we just got the bill from his surgery & we owe over $38,567.00 right now .Since we had no medical coverage when he got sick it is taking us awhile to get help with the bills. They keep sending us bills telling us they want there money now, & he really doesn't want to go after everything he went through the last time he was in there.
I am giving him nyquil , that seems to be helping with the cough & it is helping him sleep a little.That gives me a little break while he is resting. I worry about him so much if anything happens to him I don't know what I'll do.That cancer scare really showed me how much a part of my life he is, I knew I loved him but that made me realize how much.

Had date night tonight .

Tonight we had our date night even though hubby isn't feeling well. We didn't get to go out to dinner like we wanted to, but we had a cozy dinner together here. Then we sat down & watched a little tv together, since he's not feeling well he had to lay down early. It was nice spending quality time together even if it had to be cut short.

Fake people on the web

I don't know what happened when I tried to post this last night. What I am talking about is people who act like they are your friend , then bam, they are gone. I have learned now that I can't give to much information & I watch who I can trust.
There are so many wonderful people on MHH, & it's great being able to trust everyone here. All I know is that It's great to be able to trust others again.

Took care of mom today

My sister & I. took care of mom's tree . I cleaned her whole house, changed her bedding. ect, I am so sad looking the way she is living now . Bob & I are thinking about moving in there to take care of her. My life will be different, living under her control, yet she is my mom. I don't want her to always be alone & sick.I love my mom, Yet I love BOB . The Lord saids when you take a wife give up your mother (for the man) or others before them.

Having True Friendships is great.

Having true friendships is the greatest thing in the world. People come & go in our lives but true friends are there forever. I have met different people on the web who seem like they are a friend until the truth comes out about games they are playing with my emotions.I love people & talking to them, it really hurts me when you find out that someone you have trusted in is not who they say they are.
To me a true friend is : Honest, Trust Worthy, A Good Listener, Will tell you what they REALLY think, & Always know that you are there for them.
Everyone here is so special & they are honest when they talk to each other. Thank you my new friends for showing that friendships aren't dead on the web.

Feeling Better & yes told Hubby

I am feeling a little better today. Yes I did tell B/H what my Aunt tried planning behind his back. He is really hurt that should even suggest that I lie to him & sneak out to meet the ex. I can't believe she would even suggest anything like that .
I am glad that I told him what was going on it was eating away at me.

NOT FEELING WELL

Sorry I didn't post yesterday, we are both fighting a cold. I did check out the sight but I had to lay down, was down for the count early. Bob was able to drive today since the weather was sunny & no snow, so we ran to the store & he came right home.

Having a problem here with my ex. He is in town & contacted my Aunt. Wants to meet on Monday for lunch without me telling my B/H. I told her no. she said being a christian I should forgive him & let him speak his mind. I believe I am doing the right thing. I love my B/h & don't want to hide anything from him. He would never let me go without him, & I don't want to. She wants me to keep this a secret from B/H, even thought I am not going to meet him, should I tell him ? This is something that could put a staine on our marriage.

Valentine's Day

Well today is Valentine's Day & we are having really great weather here. We were able to go for a walk together, which was nice. I got a white gold ring with diamonds in it, & a box of candy. I got hubby a teddy bear in a bikers outfit & he love chocolate covered cherries so I gave them to him. I am making a chuck roast for dinner, but will start with crab legs.
Hope everyone is having a nice day today.

Feburary 13th, 2008

Well we went to get out gifts for each other for Valentine's Day today. Hubby got me a white gold ring with baby diamonds all over it & candy. I had to go with him since he idn't know my ring size. He picked it out, which I thought was so sweet. My Aunt took us since he can't drive yet, so we got her flowers & candy.
I hope everyone is having a great day today. We had another layer of ice all over the snow we got last night, so it was tricky traveling today.

Hey ginger

Ok everyone I am new at this so give me some time to get used to it.I still have to edit my profile & figure all this out.
Today having a good day, got alot done here in the house . Bob is feeling pretty good except for his cold. I'll write more later, want to edit my profile if I can.
Debbie